Thread: Annulment ? Oh no

I almost give up, after staying in our marriage for almost 8 years I really give up. From the start it won't work. And i really felt bad, divorced is not allowed here in the Philippines. So i still have a choice, filing a legal separation or filling an annulment. But it the process would take 3 to 5 years. It depends on the grounds or whatsoever reasons. Too tired for this. And one more thing, it will cost 300k for that.

Too bad, can I ask what's wrong with your hubby? 8 years is a bit long. It will really cost too much. But if you have the money, why not if it will not really work, you have wasted too much time of your life.

Feel bad for you. Get yourself busy with something you like to do while you solve these problems. If you don't like to stay with your other half, I guess you don't have a choice other then going through those lengthy legal processes.

oh no this really gives me a headache. Okay the truth is my hubby had 3 girlfriends from the start of our marriage. I've been a doormat for how many years now. I really feel so bad. I caught him 3 times. I read the messages of his girl, there was also a time i caught him on the pone talking to his another girl and the one that i can't forget is the time that i was pregnant ( well we only have 2 kids ) and the girl meet me at the mall to talk about him. D**n s**t! i am so stupid that time. Now that i have my own life and i want things to be in legal way. But this thing can't be happen. I am not a rich girl. I only want to live a simple life and that's it.

I understand how hard it is to be in that situation seisei.. Just seek guidance in Him.. No troubles are given if it wasn't meant to be resolved by the one who's given. I know for sure that this are just only temporary heartaches.. What lies ahead (happiness) is what you should think..

Originally Posted by regmac

I understand how hard it is to be in that situation seisei.. Just seek guidance in Him.. No troubles are given if it wasn't meant to be resolved by the one who's given. I know for sure that this are just only temporary heartaches.. What lies ahead (happiness) is what you should think..

do you think it will be fine ? If think of happiness first?